Ask Me How It Works

Love in an Open Marriage

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Deepa is the epitome of a woman living in her power. Ask Me How It Works provides a stunningly vulnerable and poetic glimpse into her most intimate spaces and through her journey to sexual liberation. If this book doesn’t change your perspective on relationships, nothing will
Gillian Anderson

About Deepa Paul

Deepa Paul is a Filipina-Indian author living in Amsterdam. Her writing explores the balance between being a mother, wife, girlfriend, daughter, adventurer, and herself – all at the same time.

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Imprint: Penguin
Published: 30/04/2026
ISBN: 9781405966719
Length: 368 pages
Price: £11.99

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Ask Me How It Works

Love in an Open Marriage

Format:

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Deepa is the epitome of a woman living in her power. Ask Me How It Works provides a stunningly vulnerable and poetic glimpse into her most intimate spaces and through her journey to sexual liberation. If this book doesn’t change your perspective on relationships, nothing will

A fascinating and big-hearted portrait of sex, intimacy and non-monogamy

A singingly honest, live-wire of a memoir. Reads like a long-overdue conversation with an old friend, will leave you thrilled and humming with possibility

A spectacular memoir written with verve and style

A generous-spirited, imaginative exploration of how to live life differently

A wonderfully honest and liberating memoir

A rare and wonderful thing. I feel changed and inspired by this book

With candour and wit, Deepa invites readers into her personal journey. As a woman of colour, her perspective adds a needed voice to discussions of non-traditional relationships

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