- Imprint: Penguin
- ISBN: 9781405984652
- Price: £14.00
How To Read The Room
Daniel H. Pink, bestselling author of Drive and The Power of RegretHow to Read the Room makes a subtle but powerful argument: Influence is about what you notice, not what you say. Meyer moves beyond body language clichés to reveal a deeper system of attention, context, and human need that powers every interaction. The result is a book that will help you listen better and be heard more.
Adam Grant, bestselling author of Hidden Potential and Think Again and host of the ReThinking podcastA delightfully useful guide to understanding the people in your orbit. Meyer is an astute analyst of communication, and in this book she illuminates practical ways to sharpen your own powers of observation.
Kim Scott, bestselling author of Radical Candor and Radical RespectGood communication is measured not at your mouth, but at your listener's ear. But how do you know what is going on inside another person's ear? Meyer will show you exactly how to understand the impact that you're having on others, and, crucially, how to adjust to make it better.
Joe Navarro, bestselling author of What Every Body Is SayingEvery book on body language teaches you what to observe, but Pamela Meyer teaches you what to do with it. How to Read the Room turns knowledge into power—and it will change how you walk into every room for the rest of your life.
Chris Anderson, TED chairPamela Meyer has shown us how to see the truth in every room we enter. How to Read the Room is for anyone who’s ever walked into a meeting, a first date, or a family dinner and thought: What is actually going on here? Her answers amount to a radical act of generosity—actually paying attention to people.
Jim Citrin, chair of Spencer Stuart’s Global CEO PracticeLeadership and influence belong to those who understand what’s really happening—often before others even realize it. Learning to read the room well won’t just help you perform better; it will teach you how to lead, persuade, and decide with real authority.
About Pamela Meyer
Pamela Meyer is a leading authority on deception detection and trust, known for bringing intelligence community methods into real-world business settings. Her work draws on extensive interdisciplinary research to examine how people interpret signals, navigate hidden power structures, and influence outcomes. A sought-after keynote speaker worldwide, she presents to executive audiences across business, government, and global institutions on how to detect deception, build trust, and read complex human dynamics. Meyer is the author of Liespotting and the founder and CEO of Calibrate, Inc., where she trains organizations in fraud detection, insider-threat mitigation, and security awareness. She holds an MBA from Harvard Business School and an MA in public policy from Claremont Graduate School, and she is a Certified Fraud Examiner. She resides in Washington, DC, with her husband, Frederick Kempe, and their daughter, Johanna.
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